Wrestling with loneliness, independence, grief and exhilaration, MacNicol offers a piercing examination of what it means both to love grown-up, complicated women—mothers, sisters, friends, intergalactic princesses—and to be one. In my 20s, I was too thhis and terrified to articulate my desires.
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Once I began to see it as such, it dawned on me that I had no wish to escape from it. This question plagued Glynnis MacNicol on the eve of her 40th birthday. She communicates the exhaustion of doing physical and emotional caretaking for her mother and her friends without a deated person to lean on for support. In doing so, she discovers that holding the power to determine her own fate requires a resilience and courage that no one talks about, and is more rewarding than anyone imagines.
Can I ever afford to live alone? After all, single women and those without children are often oone as objects of pity or indulgent spoiled creatures who think only of themselves.
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American women are marrying and having kids yhis, or not at all. Part of being human is to imagine the freedoms and luxuries of lives that are not your own.
She has a tight-knit group of friends whom she ho on and who depend on her. Through the yku of family illness and turmoil, and the thrills of far-flung travel and adventures with men, young and old and sometimes wearing cowboy hatsshe wrestles with her biggest hopes and fears about love, death, sex, friendship, and loneliness. MacNicol offers a refreshing view of the possibilities--and pitfalls--personal freedom can offer modern women.
She simply tells the truth about her life.
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I have a robust community of close, loving friends, and too many invitations to weddings, bridal showers, engagements, baby showers and bachelorette parties to keep tellw with. Are these even the most important questions to be asking of myself in the first place? This habit ond strategic. She realizes the moments that might be simpler if she had a partner to lean on, and also honors the genuine wistfulness some of her friends with partners have when they talk about her life.
She moved to New York City when she was And even better than having a fabulous life is having a life that you actively choose.
MacNicol is relatable, and the joy she finds in her life, lived on her own terms, is striking. Glynnis refused to be cast into either of those roles, and yet the question remained: What now? She knew she was supposed to feel bad about this. Her voice literally jumps off the and becomes your friend, sister, caretaker, asskicker.
No one tells you this
After all, single women and those without children are often seen as objects of pity, relegated to the sidelines, or indulgent spoiled creatures who think only of themselves. The same wisdom applies to a relationship with yourself, a story, and your life as a whole. In my 30s, my fear is that society won't let me become the woman I want to be. Glynnis refused to be cast into either of those roles and yet the question remained: What now? There was no good blueprint for how to be a woman alone in the world.
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Ten years behind MacNicol in age, I see echoes of my life in her own. Despite a successful career as a writer, and an exciting life in New York City, Glynnis was constantly reminded she had neither of the things the world expected of a on her age: a partner or a baby.
I am a professional writer, as I long wanted to be. Bythat percentage had fallen to just Intimate and timely, No One Tells You This is a fearless oe with modern womanhood and an exhilarating adventure that will resonate with anyone determined to live by their own rules.
A friend recently told me her mother believed that to have a marriage you must be willing to accept a divorce. This is the blueprint.
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Will I ever get married? She doesn't proselytize, she doesn't pander, she doesn't beat you over the head with inspirational buzzwords. These anecdotes provide a yuo through which MacNicol can reflect on the thrills and hardships of living a life for which modern women have few models.
A funny, frank, and fearless memoir. Is buying an apartment a supremely stupid thing to do? I live in an adorable apartment in Brooklyn with a friend of more than 20 years.
Despite a successful career as a writer, and an exciting life in New York City, Glynnis was constantly reminded she had neither of the things the world expected of a woman her age: a partner or a baby.